Monday, November 01, 2004
okay .. just want to post short one this time .. Errm, maren ada browsing2 liat-liat blog orang laen .. yg actually aku gak kenal hehe.. And i found something's interesting .. I forgot the url adress, i also forgot whose blog it is, when i wanted to read for the 2nd time, i couldn't find it .. Can't help, i opened so many blogs yesterday, so i can't remember which one .. Okay, it's just that, it has some inspiring sentences .. and it's placed for the title of the blog, so i was kinda attracted to it from 1st glance .. Here's how it said ..
After all, life still has to go on ...
If u can live til 80, and rite now u're only 20, and all the bad and unhappy things seemed a plenty, pls learn to let go and go on living, for holding on and draggin on has no meaning, it'll only waste away the remaining 60 ...
so damn true !! ( for the owner of the blog, sorry i took a quote from your blog ) ..
anyway .. those really give me more inspirations about life ..
kinda sad .. hey, we don't know when we're going to die .. can be tomorrow .. can be 70 years later .. can be 1 month later .. but surely, if you know that you're going to die soon, you definitely don't want to live your remaining days with tears and sorrow, right ? 'cause i just realized, we won't know what happiness is, if we never felt sadness before .. just imagine if we never get hurt before, what we can suppose a happiness is ? .. i'm not being hypocrite or whatsoever .. i've been hurt before .. many times .. so many that sometimes i think i had more tears than smiles .. and i do admit, those pains won't be ever healed .. those wounds were there .. and are still here .. and will always be there ..
but i just don't want to be stuck forever .. actually i was really weak back there, and i became stronger and stronger from before .. one advice from me, don't look your mistakes as burdens .. 'cause they sometimes bring you new visions ..
i'm sure, no one wants to get hurt .. but it's a part of life .. err, i've been through all those bad things and memories that definitely no girl would want to get .. but i don't regret them all .. since all my decisions, i was pretty sure that i could cope with the risks .. *siGh* .. believe me, even now i can open new life, my past can't be changed, right ? so, instead of crying over spilt milk, why don't we buy new milk ? (^^;)
anyway, it's not worthed enough for holding on .. since to go on living, one should learn to let go .. no one wants to live the remaining days in world with always waking up in the night crying, right ? .. as long God still gives us time, why don't we use them wisely ? i'm sure God doesn't want to see us live everyday with regrets too .. It's so true, they'll only waste away your remaining days ..
And oh yeah .. do what you can do, stop daydreaming .. cause i think, gathering some strength to face tomorrow, is more sensible than thinking about the day after tomorrow ..
nCy.voiLa @ 4:58 pm
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